Stuffs that affects a person's esteem level which may lead to depression and worse case scenario is severe mental illness..
1. Someone being over friendly with you.. and at the back that "someone" talks bad about you. (To some extend you can feel your heart squeezing so bad because you were totally sincere with that "someone"). It hurts really bad.. so please don't do it.
2. Snapping or bashing on someone very close to you without confirming the truth. (Seriously this is one of the craziest thing that I have experience. I was literally shaking when someone very close to me snapped and accused me for something I wasn't even aware of). Be confirmed... like really really confirmed that you are snapping on a person for their wrong doing. If you are not confirm might as well just stay quiet or just simply confront the person nicely. Don't be selfish and hurt people's feelings.
3. No one knows what everyone is going through. But certainly everyone on this planet have PROBLEMS. Whether big or small every single person go through it. So please do not assume people don't have problems. The difference is only some people like sharing with the rest of the world and some people do not like to bother others with their problems. So always be considerate with others no matter what.
4. If you are nice to a person make sure you really really mean it. Don't do it for the sake of "attention". Sooner or later you will lose everything.
5. Don't be rude especially with elders no matter you are right or wrong or no matter what the situation is. Being rude simply says many negative things about you. Why should you portray yourself that way?
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